I hope when any of you are out walking a dog in the next two weeks, the dog doesn’t inadvertently leave behind a present. “Please pick up after your dog. Your neighbors will thank you.” This sign remains posted on one of my favorite walking paths, as real winter weather finally begins. I say that with hope that the last snow was a true indication of our neighborly inclinations.
I am used to catching a glimpse of polite warnings in yards throughout most seasons. I have yet to see anyone even stop near this particular sign with their dog, even though farther down the path there remains a full bag dispenser. Even though some residents display their belief in keeping their yards pristine with tasteful reminders to pick up what these doggie duos leave behind, every season there seem to be others who believe equally in their right to ruin it for everyone. However, it just happens that this season does bring out the best in most of us, so I have noticed that although the sign remains posted on the fences near parks or paths, our mild winter so far has continued to have as many dog-walkers doing as they are asked.
This simple reminder is unadorned yet offers neighbors and strangers alike a wonderful Christmas display in the background, so it stays on the fence untouched by weather or angry folks crossing out individual words to reflect the true feelings of the people passing through. I noticed the casual use of the word neighbor, which let me know they consider me a neighbor even if I don’t reside in the neighborhood. I was particularly interested in the part of the sign that gives everyone the benefit of the doubt, reminding anyone passing through that they would be thanked if they did as the sign requested. I bet their light displays demonstrate their optimistic and hopeful spirits.
I wonder if this particular neighborhood goes all out sharing their Christmas spirit with each other as well. No battles over boundary lines or noise have erupted. Now I am waiting for winter to set in and the snow to pile up blocking anyone’s access to that pristine parklike area. If I look back to previous winters it is sure to eventually host a few stalwart walkers braving the icy, snow-dusted paved path. I know a few of us may make this a habit, continuing to show our “neighbors” that we appreciate them by thanking them or offering to help them make it through what appears to be one more challenging year. Have a Merry Christmas and the happiest of holidays to one and all!
By DOLLY VISCARDI – Special to the Herald Times
