MEEKER I May I say a few kind words about Judy Eskelson as she transitions into retirement? Many of you have known her far longer than me, but I would like to share a few thoughts about this stellar health care worker.
As a patient, I just have to say, “gosh, darn it!” Judy, you are the best primary care provider I’ve ever encountered. That term seems way too basic, because you are also a friend, listener, advisor and confidant. How will I replace you with someone who doesn’t know my health history without consulting my chart?
You are patient, you check every detail, you compare this visit’s stats with prior data, you call me at home if needed, you harass me when I’m not following your orders, and you always look out for the bigger picture. While I make an appointment for one pressing issue, you take time to evaluate my overall health too.
Compared to most health care providers I have encountered over many years, you have always taken more time and paid more attention than most. Yes, I know you are a nurse practitioner who doesn’t always get her due. I salute you for your expertise and every kind thing you have done for me and surely for many others.
I think I’m a fairly compliant patient, but I have resisted some of your advice, not because it is not right, just because I didn’t want to face some things. So, thanks for doing the correct medical thing and getting me to faithfully follow your orders.
You’ve helped me address some aging issues that are no fun and sometimes have no medical answers. When we felt overwhelmed by caretaking responsibilities, you gave us straight forward and supportive advice. When we grieved, you took time to truly inquire, “How are you doing?”
Joe Sullivan, my father-in-law, trusted you implicitly. He used to say, he could tell you anything and as well, he followed your advice to the letter. “Judy says” is a long-time mantra in our house, so your reputation follows you with many positive memories and good advice.
Health care today seems to becoming more and more impersonal. I receive information all the time about how I can get medical advice online. But some stranger would not know me like Judy does. I have waited days to get an appointment with Judy because I know she would truly understand my health care needs.
As I say goodbye, I wish you much rest and joy. You have more than served our community in so many caring ways. May the days ahead bring you peace and relaxation. Godspeed, Judy.
By KAYE SULLIVAN | Special to the Herald Times
