Meeting more than a few people who identify themselves as either a cat or dog person, I realized we have one thing in common. We are always being asked to acknowledge an allegiance to one or the other. The odd thing is that most animal lovers are just that: they don’t prefer one species to another. One is almost never asked to admit their preference for one human or another, at least by the adult sector. Children are the first to utter these words.
“Who is your favorite?” Parents are asked this question most often because of the nature of sibling rivalry. We all make the assumption that everyone truly has a favorite. If someone admits that they might have a preference, it is usually the one that is not any trouble to take care of or doesn’t cause trouble.
Providing the pleasure of companionship is the key. One glance at how someone treats their dog or cat can be a giveaway. The kindness or warmth demonstrated in the small moments reveals a great deal about an individual. Seeing someone kick a dog or strike a cat might seem inconsequential, yet it can change someone’s mind about that particular person. It often is not a one-time deal and reveals a side to someone that stays hidden most of the time. This personality flaw makes it difficult for everyone in the community eventually, as it becomes increasingly tough to stay loyal or true.
By Dolly Viscardi | Special to the Herald Times
